Psst. This really is a “spiritual” post, but you
might have to get all the way to the end before the big reveal.
When you see
those words - Spoiler Alert - what is your immediate thought?
Do you want to stop in your tracks and turn away; or are you compelled to read on like
you are going to get something special to which no one else is privy? We all respond differently to those words,
but I recently heard about a study
some researchers at UC San Diego did that suggested getting the spoiler actually makes us enjoy the story better. I was a bit doubtful about that, but then I started to think about it. Come to find out, I think
they may be right.
Are you like me? I often enjoy a movie or book the second time around much more than I
did the first time around. The first
time I am watching or reading a story, I am just waiting for the next moment to
happen. Yes, the suspense itself can be
enjoyable, but because of the unknown, there is often much that gets missed
in the process. The second time through it, I get
to focus on the story itself, the character development, and even the literary
or cinematic details. Truthfully –
assuming it is a good story - I find I
really enjoy the story more the second time. In other words, I will watch/read it the first time to see if I like it, then want to watch/read it a second time to really enjoy it. Maybe that explains why Patty and I often get into discussions about
movies on demand. She never wants to
rent a movie if we have seen it before, but I have no problem with it – in fact I am
drawn to it. I *want* to rent movies that I have already seen in the theater. Of course, I don’t really understand her
objection, because she never remembers the movie anyway – for her, it’s always
like watching the movie for the first time – but I digress. I think this is also why I have no problem at
all binge-watching a TV series on Netflix that I’ve already seen
before. Even though I know exactly what
is going to happen in the end, I can focus on the journey and the process - and I like it as much or more the second time around.
Coming to
this realization has also made me think of something else. Watching Alabama Football (ROLL TIDE) is the
most stressful, nerve racking activity in which I engage. I have a horrible love-hate relationship with Fall Saturdays.
Why?
Because I don’t know the outcome of the game – and I actually care about what that
outcome will be. If things are looking bad, I start biting my nails, my heart starts pounding, and my whole disposition changes. Now - as a pastor and a believer I realize that this is an indication of a level of idolatry in my life that needs to be dealt with, but that is a whole different blog post. The point here is this: I care about the outcome and not knowing is stressful when things start going astray.
This week I have been sort of half-way watching the NBA finals. I have really enjoyed the parts that I have watched and I have been very interested in the ultimate outcome. I have a team that I am pulling for (I’m a
Curry fan), but truthfully I’m not as invested in it as I would be watching
Bama. For that reason, I've not been too stressed about it and, in fact, I've not really watched all of any of the games - just bits and pieces. it simply has not been nerve
racking for me like the college national championship game when Alabama is playing. I have similar distant, but not invested interests in Brave’s Baseball and Packers Football.
I like it, but I’m not freaking out about missing the game or even whether they win or lose. I’m not saying I WANT to know the
Alabama Football score before watching the game, but I can recall a few games
that I have watched on the DVR after I already knew the final score. I was not so stressed out – and yet it was
still quite enjoyable. I certainly didn’t
know HOW the team would get to the final score, but I know what score they will
get to – and so I can enjoy the journey of getting there, with all of its ups
and downs, knowing that no matter what happens during the game, Alabama will be
in the lead when the clock runs out (yes they will; they always do – don’t try
to take that away from me – this is my blog post).
So that gets
me thinking even further. There is
nothing that we (individually) are more invested in than our own lives and
our own future. I think this is why life
itself can be so stressful and so nerve racking. We just don’t know where things are going and
that can be frightening and generate a level of anxiety within us that is
pretty high up on the stress meter.
Spoiler Alert! Actually, we do
know where things are going. We know and
believe that in all things God is working for the good of those who love him
and are called according to his purposes (Rom 8:28). We know and believe that Jesus is coming
again and will set up a kingdom of righteousness and justice. We know that because we have faith in Jesus,
that we will have eternal life. In fact,
the bible tells us that the war has already been won – it’s not a matter that
we WILL win, we already HAVE won (well, HE won and we get the benefit).
This is why Revelation 1:3 says blessed are those who read the book of Revelation. It's not about the what's or the when's of the tribulation or the persecution or the plagues or any of that stuff - it's about getting the spoiler. Jesus is coming back. Evil will be punished. Justice will prevail. The Kingdom of God will be established forever, and we get to spend eternity with our Savior.
The point
is: We know the final score. That means we ought to be able to have peace about where
things are going. We ought to be able to
focus on the journey – even enjoy it more knowing where it is headed. Sure, portions of this life might be painful. In fact, I would say much of life probably will be painful. But - spoiler alert: We win. So relax and enjoy the game.
PS. If I don't get to watch the Alabama game live, DON'T YOU DARE tell me the score. For some things that don't matter as much, I can find just as much enjoyment in the stress - after all, it's only a game.
